Sorrowful world...

Nothing is constant in this life but a change. Life reveals itself in the form of bitter and cherishable instances. Some instances of  my life make me sad. I then lock the door of my room and start talking to myself, and in rare cases, start weeping. I ask myself, is my sadness worth lamenting? Am i being immature?
There is lot of sadness in this world, lot of problems and matters have much more gravity than that of mine. People lose their dear ones, they face accidents, some of them have diseases which are incurable. Some of them do not get proper food and some of them live below poverty line. Children are employed as labours and do not go to school. Brides are burnt and people are murdered.
See...!! There is a lot of sadness in this world. And I am lamenting on my petty matters!!! I then say to myself-"life is full of challenges and we have to face them bravely".
I wipe out my tears, unlock my room, and come out with a hope that one day these problems will be solved. One day I will be of some help to someone. One day, life will be full of happiness for all..!

Learning throughout...

Since the day a person is born, he is continually in the state of learning. His parents are his first teachers, especially the mother. He glances at the surroundings and learns various shapes, designs, objects, people, and all other things. Then he is admitted to school. He gets teachers to teach him. He gets books to learn from. He starts gaining all sorts of knowledge. And even when he enters in the later stages of life, this process of learning continues.

But is this it???

We need books for electronics, digital, mathematics and physics. But do we need books for gaining experience? Certainly not.!  The most important lesson of life is taught by the LIFE ITSELF. Life teaches us that it is not as beautiful as we had imagined from our rose tinted glasses! It is filled with the lava of sorrow. It is like a path composed of thorns crossing which is based on our wisdom and experience. The experience of life cannot be taught by any book.

It is not what a person has learned in his book, what matters is how he implements it; how he utilises his knowledge to lead a successful life..!

What does being practical mean??

Every day I find people here and there talking of being practical. Very first trait which is looked for in a person is whether he is practical or not. Counsellors suggest us to be practical. Our elders teach us to be practical. They share their experience of life and advice us to control our emotions and be practical. You mind over petty matters and guess what your friends will say? Their immediate reply to it would be,"Common yaar! Be practical!".

But does being practical mean you have to lose all your emotions? Or does it mean adopting unfair means to win the race of life? Or does it mean to indulge in corruption and get everything done smoothly? Does being practical mean you have to deceive your friend? Does it mean to have an incapable person snatching away a capable person's position?

No...

Being practical means you should be able to take right decisions at the right time. You have to be emotional and should know how to control your emotions. Being practical means helping your friend when he is need of you and not spoiling the notion of friendship... Being practical means carrying forward buisness in a fair way. Being practical means to be just...

If every human becomes practical, then guess what this world will be like??

Reasons why I don't believe in God...

Everyday I hear of brides burnt due to dowry, inncoent people murdered, children doing labour, incapable people occupying all the higher positions, good people facing all the sorrows. I see people lying in coma for 5 decades with no change in their condition. I see people paralysed lying all on the road. I see inncoent people rendered homeless due to natural calamities. I see them losing their near and dear ones....  and all sorts of injustice...People say God is there. But if He is really there then WHY DOES HE NOT MAKE HIS PRESENCE FELT??? Why does he not help them?? Why is the justice not provided immediately? Why do the innocent people have to suffer a lot?? I ask myself how can the humans be so cruel? After all we are humans.. How can a human kill another human??  And why is God so cruel?? Definitely he must not be there. Otherwise he would have surely made his presence felt....

Sometimes..

Sometimes I ponder over what do i really want? What really makes me sad? Sometimes I hurt someone. I dwindle over why did i quarrel?? Why was I so tensed that I fought with the one whom I like the most? Why I bursted on my most liked one? Why am I not talking to the one whom I admire the most?? And sometimes I look for the ways i can make them smile..I find people are far better than me... they are intelligent, they are good speakers, good managers,and all better. I start introspecting. I start finding what is the mistake in me... in what way can i improve myself? What should I do? I try m best. And sometimes I find I am suceeding. Sometimes I find I am not. I guess this is life.. We learn good things in others. We try to imbibe them in ours-in our own way...

Mind over matter..!

Age is an issue of mind over matter.If u dont mind, it doesnt matter.!